Not to identify oneself with something, or to associate things with the "me," and to see that the idea that there is a "me" which is distinct from things is a delusion - that is true wisdom.by Dalai Lama
You will fall sick, experience pain, and encounter many adverse circumstances. At such times do not think, 'Although I am practicing the Dharma, I have nothing but trouble. The Dharma cannot be so great. I have followed a teacher and done so much practice, and yet hard times still befall me.'
All the faults of our mind – our selfishness, ignorance, anger,
attachment, guilt, and other disturbing thoughts – are temporary, not
permanent and everlasting. And since the cause of our suffering – our
disturbing thoughts and obscurations – is temporary, our suffering is
also temporary.